The Beginning:
I go all out for my daughters' birthday parties. I mean ALL out. I transform most of the house into whatever theme they have chosen for that year. We start by picking a theme and then searching it on Google Images. They pick out pictures of things they like and I save them in a folder made specifically for that birthday.
When my youngest was 3 and we were planning her 4th birthday party she decided on a Alice in Wonderland/ Mad Hatter Tea Party theme. We were doing our annual Google search and we came across a picture of a cake that she just had to have. "Mommy, that is all I want for my birthday. You don't have to get me anything else, not even a Barbie. I will be extra-special good. Promise." Then she gave me her big puppy dog look with the bottom lip sticking out. I caved.
This is the picture we found:
It was on www.cakecentral.com ...which was a great resource on how to actually make the cake.
Looking back I can't believe what a good job I did. I had no idea what I was doing. Now, almost 2 years later I have a lot more tricks up my sleeve, but still think this first cake was one of my best.